actually thinking is a continuous and complete act in itself and behind it are many causes and steps but this a mental and psychological act.
it is our everyday’s observation and experience that only those people are successful and achievers who are focused and firm in their views and beliefs and their thoughts don’t deviate different ways. Acts are subservient to the thoughts, it is not possible to act without a vision. This is true that sometimes thought process is so unintentional, so quick and rapid that a person is accused of acting without thinking. Actually it appears that the act is devoid of thinking, but it is also under effect of thought. It happens that a person keeps on cultivating a thought at different times under effect of various factors and causes and at some time, under influence of a thought, unintentionally he does something. Now if that act fails or proves wrong, the person who did it is blamed. But if the act results fruitfully, he is appreciated, and people become sure of that person’s abilities and intelligence. Actually thinking is a continuous and complete act in itself and behind it are many causes and steps but this a mental and psychological act and since it is not visible to other people, therefore most of the times it is not given importance. Sometimes this prolonged process becomes tangled because of different and contradictory thought processes and it results in complexity in verbal, written and physical expression, unorganized and non consistent attitude develops. A human mind observes its surroundings; it also wants to understand its relation and interaction with other things. It ponders upon its own existence, other people, man’s relation with this universe, and most importantly it ponders upon the relation between Allah and man and it wants to specify its position in the universe, society and family.

Continued: they don’t change their nature, why should we change our temperament)

Does bad, act nicely with him. The truth that a believer’s faith and humility is tested when he is persistently a wellwisher, good mannered, and open hearted  person when he is treated unjustly, cruelly, insincerely and by not getting what’s lawfully his. May we try to succeed in this test!!!