Heart is that cardinal organ of the body that guides us about true paths, fair deals and righteous characters. Our heart yields invisible rays and waves and those waves and rays are transferred into someone else’s heart. These waves can be negative as well as positive. They are negative when our thoughts are negative. Our emotions are negative. And we hold spite, animosity and hatred about someone in our heart when we are moving in life. And they are positive when we can guide our feelings to positive things. And these positive thoughts become positive waves and rays and they make our heart, body and soul positive, fragrant and enlightened. And if our body and mind always keeps on thinking about negative aspects of people, then a time will come when our body shall itself become filled with hatred. And hatred shall spread in our whole body. Then in our body there will always be hatred that we shall not be able to get rid of even willingly. The love of the heart of mother affects the child. And the love of the heart of that mother who only focuses on her home, husband and the kids.  The women who are forced to work or even work willingly can never give the desired level of love and affection to their generations. And their generations can never acquire healthy waves and rays. They shall always acquire tired and trodden waves and rays. What service shall a tired heart do? And what service shall tired thoughts give? Islam has made woman the lamp of the family and not of the gathering. Islam has given a position to the woman; it has given her a position. It has given her rights as a widow. That if she has kids, even then she gets a share in the inheritance. And if she does not have offspring, she will get twice as much share in inheritance. In the Holy Quran and Hadith there such a position of woman in the society that no matter how much close she is to the old age. If she is a mother then it has rewards to look at her. If she is a daughter then serving her has rewards. If she is a sister then by giving her rights and serving her can help a person acquire rewards. Adorn the life and the afterlife. Increase sustenance, Improve health. Because with reconciling with the kins there are mentions of long life in the Hadith. It is promised that the prayers will be accepted. And it is promised to remain away from bad death. We can make our personalities, bodies and spirits fragrant at the time when we are free from any mischief in our hearts. Thoughts come, they shall keep on coming again. But how much benefits you are acquiring from these thoughts? And how much are you benefiting others with these thoughts? After reading this essay of mine, at least think thrice in a day, you and me, that how much our thoughts are positive or negative, and how much benefits we are acquiring and how much we are benefiting the humanity. Come! Let’s make our thoughts positive, for the world, for humanity and for every sect, every creed, every color and race. By the will of Allah! 

Islam has made woman the lamp of the family and not of the gathering. Islam has given a position to the woman, it has given her a position. It has given her rights as a widow. That if she has kids, even then she gets a share in the inheritance. And if she does not have offspring, she will get twice as much share in inheritance.